Once upon a time there was a little girl who dreamed of Mr. Right. He was just like the fairy tales.
He was handsome,
he could sing,
he la-la-la-la-la-UVed her,
and UNDOUBTEDLY he would whisk her off her feet.
As this little girl grew up her criteria changed a little bit – maybe she needed more than a fairytale. Maybe she needed something real.
Intelligence
Motivation
Open-mindedness
Wit
(and likes dogs)
But where in the world would she ever meet Mr. Right? And what if … oh no … what if she FOUND HIM and then discovered she wasn’t HIS Mrs. Right!?!?!
HEARTBREAK
Tears
Sad sigh
OR maybe it was fair to assume that HER Mr. Right would want the same things in HIS Mrs. Right. So she just needed to make sure she was everything he was looking for. :) So she worked at being well-rounded – tried to live a full life – she knew that HER Mr. Right would be busy filling his life the best he could until he found her – and so she did the same. And as she filled her life, her needs from a potential Mr. Right changed and became more complicated and complex. She realized love wouldn’t be enough – she needed someone who could offer compatible and complimentary traits and talents.
Seems logical right?
Right. It makes perfect sense to me.
So could someone please explain to me WHY in the world this is so difficult for all of the Mr. and Mrs. Wrongs to understand!? I freaking hate dating today. If I read someone’s profile and they are looking for a girl who is XYZ and I’m NOT XYZ – guess what?? I accept that we’re not compatible!!! dang it – I always revert back to algebra. BUT IT’S BECAUSE IT MAKES SENSE!!!! But seriously – I’m a KLM looking for an EFG who is looking for a KLM. And I’m NOT looking for an ABC who is looking for a KLM – nor am I looking for an XYZ or a DEF or IT DOESN’T EVEN MATTER – if you’re not an EFG then it DOESN’T MATTER if you are looking for a KLM. It takes TWO to tango – and gosh darn it!! I’m sick of all of the other letters of the alphabet today. I don’t understand why this is so difficult to understand!!!! :(
Though if I were just blunt it’d be a heck of a lot easier to understand – but I’m trying not to be MEAN so I’m using algebraic type metaphors.
I guess it just all boils down to this: I’m annoyed. And I know that’s MY problem but since this is my blog :) YAY!!! I get to vent. Please feel free to vent in the comments about whatever you like – maybe it’ll be good therapy for us all.
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you know what they say-You have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your handsome prince!
well, maybe not kiss, but you know :)
I want to vent about my mail lady. She NEVER takes my letters with her. The little tray under the mailbox is there for a reason! I have left my addressed and stamped letters out there for days and she never takes them! Hopefully the other mail lady comes today. She ALWAYS takes my letters with her :/
I find that being blunt does help alot. It gets all the bull out of the way and lets everyone know what you are actually looking for. And it might help you realize exactly what you are looking for. It helped me.
Your blog was making me mad for you that the world is so crazy and people are so ignorant, but then you started including algebra. And algebra makes me happy. And so instead of being mad, I started solving equations.
Solving equations creates order, and order is good.
Ooooh the infinite search for Mr. Right….
I think I’m just doomed to meet Mr. Wrong all of the time, it’s really very frustrating & I’m almost ready to give up on the “search.” Maybe if I stop searching he’ll fall right into my lap…yeah…uh huh!