WHAT?? Oh yes – it’s true. #3 called me about an hour ago and dumped me. Where did this come from? I have NO IDEA. The last time we talked he told me he was excited to see me and couldn’t WAIT until I got back.
He said his feelings have changed over the past two days. TWO DAYS? Since when do you fall in love with someone and after 48 hours of doubt you break up with them? Whatever.
I’m kind of angry to be honest. I have spent the last 4 weeks corresponding with him DAILY, NOT dating, trying to hang out with CC+4 as little as possible and I’ve been FALLING FOR HIM – yes it’s true – I was falling for #3!!!! Then – FIVE DAYS BEFORE I COME HOME HE DUMPS ME???
His reasons? After he told me his feelings had changed I told him, “Ok” and said he didn’t need to give me reasons why BUT HE DID ANYWAY. For the next 15 minutes he REPEATED HIMSELF OVER AND OVER AGAIN about why his feelings have changed so I’ll share those with you:
- I’m from overseas
- We don’t understand each other 100% (no effin duh! we’ve only been dating for 2 months!!!!)
- He’s just not feeling like I’m 100% into it
Sounds to me likes he’s scared. I AM TOO! But I wasn’t going to break-up with him because of it!!! I apologized that he didn’t feel like I was 100% and admitted I’m nervous about a relationship but that I did really like him.
Anyway – what’s done is done?? We’ll see. But for now – I’m just a little bit angry.
UPDATE: I sent an email to #3 confessing my feelings – he made the comment that I wasn’t 100% – I felt bad about that. Anyway – I told him I respect his feelings though I don’t agree and I appreciate the time we had together (and would he please send me my cellphone as I left it in his car – oops!) And he wrote back saying he’s been sick since he talked to me because he felt so bad disappointing me.
WTF?? I gave him NO indication that I was upset or unhappy by his decision on the phone – but he’s been sick because he disappointed me? I feel foolish for having a momentary lapse of judgment and am absolutely thrilled that my email could boost his ego one last time.
ok ok – I’m being sarcastic. Just not the happiest moment for me. Always sucks to have a broken heart. Especially a double broken heart since I gave up CC+4 for #3 … I guess I made the wrong choice eh? just my luck.
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ugh, I’m sorry :( I hope you feel better soon. And I hope things are OK with him when you get back to AUS!
Boys are stupid, throw rocks at them.
yea, I am with you on thinking he is just scared. I may not be right, but I have a feeling when you’re back in OZ you guys will work it out.
when you feel like someone isn’t 100% into it… you ask them about it, you talk to them, get their side of things… you don’t just DUMP them!!! I’m sorry… WHO is the one who isn’t 100% into it?? I’m telling you- when I’ve REALLY liked guys in the past- it was pretty clear that they weren’t AS into it- but did I go dumping them? Hell no… because I WAS into it!! Then they all dumped me anyways…
Seriously… I have heard so many dating stories from hell from my American friends lately. I’m so sorry :( Time for a really hot rebound!!
I’m sorry. I hope the rest of your stay in the US is better.
And I hope #3 realizes how big of a douche he is. I think he was scared and couldn’t handle the whole relationship thing, so he freaked out.
Men.. who knows what they’re thinking? Self centred bastards always trying to tell you how you feel.. tell you that you’re not 100% into it. They just don’t understand us.
Sounds like just another frog on the way to finding your prince. Though things might change between the two of you when you’re back in Australia. Whatever happens, I hope you find happness.
Could you please kick #3 when you get back to Aus?! What in the world is his deal???
By the time you get back, I bet he will have changed his mind & decided to face his relationship fears. Unfortunately, guys in general are just confusing….what are beautiful women like us supposed to do?!
Guys are the pits sometimes, but you deserve a better guy than that…dare I say a man? Good luck in your quest!
Great pics with your peeps. Just like you, nephews & neices are my priority whenever they’re in town.
See you soon.
Daisy,
Give me his address and I’ll go pick up your cellphone for you. And I’ll punch him in the gut for you? Sound good? j.k. But seriously, as cliche as it might sound, you are too good for him. It isn’t like you’d proposed marriage to him. It is called DATING. My god. I am sorry though about CC+4 though… because he’s super duper hot… and like Elsja said, rebound time…? Keep us posted. xo